Cause I have a bad case of worry for you.
About two weeks ago I heard that my former dermatologist, Dr Jerome Aronberg had been arrested for felony sodomy. http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/stories.nsf/laworder/story/8A2971326A5AF08D862575B5000BFFFB?OpenDocument
I was shocked.
I'd been seeing him for a few years for various biopsies and switched doctors last fall only because I needed something done he couldn't do and was referred elsewhere.
I thought he was
cool. He had a massive display of political pins in one room that he had collected. They were mounted on the walls and went back for decades. We once had a conversation about Nixon.
Nixon was a great politician, he told me.
I grimaced.
I didn't say he was a great president, only a great politician.I grinned.
In another room he had two Alcoa aluminum chairs from the 50's that made me
swoon. Those chairs are incredible, I once told him. He said they had won Chair of the Year in the 50s (I forget which year).
Once he was sporting a wedding ring and he beamed when I congratulated him.
What is felony sodomy?
I believe the definition has been updated since old testament times so I asked Tim and he said "in some states it's anything other than the missionary position."
My Right Hand said it was anal penetration.
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About twelve years ago I did some volunteer work with juvenile offenders. I was working with a 15 year old boy when one day while visiting the apartment where he lived with his mother and brothers, a baby was missing. It was perplexing since the week prior his mother had been flashing photos of her new baby at a party for the kids. I asked him, where's you baby brother and was told he was sick and staying with relatives.
But where's the baby's bed, I had asked.
I casually relayed this conversation to the director of the program. Long story short, I had inadvertently stumbled onto something the mother was trying to hide and was immediately yanked from working with the kid.
What the hell?I was told I could be accused of sexual misconduct (by the mother) if I didn't resign immediately. I was flabbergasted and angry. I had a good working relationship with the kid but after several people with the program talked to me, I finally grasped the implications. All because I saw (actually,
didn't see) something I shouldn't have witnessed.
And there's this too: When I was a teenager in the late 60's the director of the school I attended was a over caffeinated guy who was always hugging the female students. He creeped me out and knew I didn't like him. He was married to an extraordinary woman and was banging the wife of another teacher. Seriously, very creepy guy.
All of the students knew about the affair.
We also knew he had a 'relationship' with a student who eventually became pregnant and was flown to CA to have an abortion since they weren't legal in the early 70's.
I passed him riding his bike today today while driving through the neighborhood and started thinking about Aronberg again.